Chronic rescheduling is a systematic pattern in which commitments are made primarily to relieve the social discomfort of refusal, then deferred repeatedly to avoid the discomfort of the actual encounter. The result is a calendar that functions as a zone of aspirational fantasy rather than actual scheduling: appointments exist, but they are not intended. This paper applies the Displacement Framework to characterise chronic rescheduling as a wrong attractor W_CR whose basin depth is sustained by a dual-relief architecture — the commitment provides immediate relief from the awkwardness of saying no, while the reschedule provides subsequent relief from the anxiety of the impending meeting.
The ground state S^0 — calibrated temporal commitment — is defined as the capacity to make appointments that reflect actual intentions, to treat one's future time as a real resource rather than an abstract social promise, and to honour commitments reliably or decline them honestly at the moment of invitation. Nine formal propositions characterise the deferral mechanism, the deepening of the basin through relief reinforcement, the progressive erosion of trust as a displacement cost, relational effects on those who receive the pattern, and the conditions under which return to S^0 becomes possible.
The return path centres on selective commitment — only committing when genuinely intending to show up — and on using the reschedule-urge as a diagnostic signal about what one actually wants, rather than as a trigger for another face-saving deferral.
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