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Chronic Shame as Defective Self Wrong Attractor: The Hiding Imperative, Bypassed Shame, and the Return to Basic Okayness

Rincón, D. · 2026 · Zenodo · defective self wrong attractor

This is the record, not the paper. The work itself is the deposit on Zenodo, under the DOI below. What follows is its abstract, as deposited.

Shame is an adaptive social emotion that signals violation of community standards. Chronic shame is a wrong attractor W_shame in which the person's self-concept is captured in a stable 'defective self' configuration — not 'I did something bad' (guilt) but 'I am bad' (shame). We apply the Displacement Framework to formalize chronic shame. The healthy self-evaluation ground state S0_self is defined as a self-concept capable of acknowledging mistakes, experiencing proportionate guilt, making repair, and returning to basic okayness.

W_shame arises when shame-eliciting experiences generate not episodic behavior-condemnation but structural self-condemnation — a character-level wrong-attractor identity. Nine formal propositions cover: S0_self as self-concept with basic okayness (P1), W_shame as defective self wrong attractor (P2), the hiding imperative — shame-concealment as basin-deepening mechanism (P3), the shame-hiding loop — a formally coupled system where concealment → isolation → amplified shame → deeper concealment (P4), bypassed shame — unconscious shame generating rage, contempt, and grandiosity as defenses (P5), developmental origins — attachment-based shame experiences constructing W_shame self-concept (P6), narcissism as shame defense — grandiosity as counterphobic W_narcissism relative to W_shame (P7), cumulative Phi_shame across psychological, relational, behavioral, somatic, and suicidality domains (P8), and return paths including self-compassion (Neff), shame resilience (Brown), schema therapy, group disclosure, and Complex PTSD developmental work (P9).

Body shame, cultural shame, the shame-pride axis, and Nathanson's Compass of Shame are analyzed.

chronic shame · displacement framework · defective self · hiding imperative · bypassed shame · narcissism · wrong attractor · self-compassion

Read the deposit on Zenodo →doi 10.5281/zenodo.20414087

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