Phronesis← deposits
Phronesis · deposited

Compulsive Other-Fixing as Caretaking-as-Control Wrong Attractor: The Improvement-Drive Architecture, Autonomy-Erosion Basin, and the Return to Calibrated Supportive Presence

Rincón, D. · 2026 · Zenodo · caretaking-as-control wrong attractor

This is the record, not the paper. The work itself is the deposit on Zenodo, under the DOI below. What follows is its abstract, as deposited.

We present a formal analysis of compulsive other-fixing as a wrong attractor within the displacement framework developed in the Phronesis Issues series. Compulsive other-fixing is characterized as the habitual drive to identify and correct problems in others — their habits, choices, relationships, career trajectories, and health behaviors — even when uninvited. Though experienced by the practitioner as care, concern, or love, other-fixing functions as a form of control: it systematically substitutes the fixer's judgment for the other person's own autonomous agency.

We model the ground state S^0 as calibrated supportive presence, defined by offering support when requested, trusting others to manage their own development, and accepting the other's right to make choices and bear the consequences thereof. The wrong attractor W is formalized through its component architecture: the problem-detection trigger, the “I can help” rationalization, and the autonomy-erosion mechanism that reorganizes relationships around a fixer-fixed dynamic.

We introduce the displacement cost function D(), the accumulated displacement integral = D()\,dt, and nine formal propositions characterizing the basin depth, relational reorganization dynamics, and conditions for return. The basin's resistance to correction derives from the phenomenological structure of other-fixing: it is experienced as virtuous, not controlling, making it among the more durable wrong attractors in the interpersonal domain.

The return path requires distinguishing genuine support from control, releasing outcome-ownership, and developing the capacity to be present with another's difficulty without compulsion to eliminate it.

displacement framework · wrong attractor · psychology

Read the deposit on Zenodo →doi 10.5281/zenodo.20422336

nearby in the index

Organic AttractionOriginal Attraction: Ground State Navigation, Fear-Based Displacement, and the BAE PhenomenonOver-AvailabilityOver-Commitment